Welcome!

Hey there, you Awesome Badass!
My name is Cari and I’m so glad you’re here! I'm not sure what brought you here, but I do know that if you're a human, you've got shit. I don't know a single human who doesn't to one degree or another. Do you?
You can thank that little pattern-obsessed 3lb blob of fat, sugar and carbs on your shoulders. To your brain, pattern = safety because patterns are predictable. The problem with this is that patterns are not based on facts. They're fueled by emotion, and damn do emotions feel convincing. They can make you believe that they're your reality even when they're FAR from it. And - THAT - is why people stay stuck - because the stuff they're in - SEEMS - so real, you just assume that it's just "who you are," but it's not. It's a bunch of BS.
Chill, chill, chill. It's not all doom and gloom. Your brain created the patterns and it can fix them if it's given the right tools. You might even be blaming yourself for not succeeding at something because no matter what you do, you just haven't found "the" thing that works. You've probably tried a ton of things to get outta' where you are, but nothing seems to click. And if it does, it doesn't last.
Well, if you're like millions of others, you've got some pretty kickass dust collectors on your bookshelves promising self-help. But they all address "change" or "new habits" and those aren't tools. Your brain sees that stuff like a good challenge and will hold on even tighter the harder you try. Look at it this way, if you're building a house would you ask an auto mechanic for their torque wrench and then demand he use that to put up the drywall or lay your flooring? Doesn't make sense, right? You NEED the right tools and so does your brain.
So, that in a nutshell is what we work on together. We find some shit that works so your brain makes the shift you want (not what it decides for you). So, make yourself comfy, dig around, and if something resonates, I’d love to hear from you.

I love seeing the success with clients in all areas of focus, but my specialty in practice is with veterans, active duty, and first responders (and of course, my students).
The process?
Every tool and every session is crafted specifically for each individual client so they're the fastest and most effective for your brain to work with. To do that, we work first on determining the way your brain communicates and interprets life. Then we use each session to its fullest (and sometimes between sessions) to work towards your success with 100% client-directed and self-driven processes.
But… a fair warning in advance - I do things a little differently around here.
I don't tiptoe or enable, and I don't pretend to know what's "best" for you, and if for any reason my skillset cannot fully address your situation, I'll support you while we work to find you a more suitable professional. I also don't pretend to be someone I'm not. So you get "me" every time you meet with me. No stuffy, fluffy, toxic positivity, or BS here. You'll get honesty. Transparency. Integrity.
But...I do swear...so if you aren't into the occasional colorful adjective, or prefer to be coddled, then I may not be your jam. I'm real, and I know these tools work, but our ability to "mesh" is a big part of the foundation.
Finish up the little blurb below and let me know if you have any questions!
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